Why Do Women Worry So Much When Their Boyfriend’s Or Husband’s Masturbate?
Okay, in all of the questions where younger teen guys are asking “should i masturbate?” or “is it okay to masturbate?” we say “of course. it’s a perfectly natural thing. go for it”. But then the older teen girls and up get offended when their boyfriend’s or husband’s masturbate. Why is this? Why does masturbation become a bad thing or a unnatural thing when a guy gets in a relationship?
My boyfriend and i decided to wait until we’re engaged to have sexual intercourse but we have still do oral and i give him hand jobs and everything but i know he still goes at it by himself. Hell, he has a sex toy to help him along sometimes when he doesn’t want to use his hand. I’m perfectly fine with this. I know what he gets from me is more then satisfactory, he’s told me so. He says i’ll always be the best. But he still has his needs. In my opinion, him masturbating is better than him going out and finding some other girl to take care of him.
Is it just girls being insecure or is it that they just think that since a guy has a girl to get him off, he no longer needs his time alone? Why do girls get so offended and upset?
And i did mean for this to be in the men’s health section. I want to know what you guys think about why women get so upset. I’ll ask the girls a little later.
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February 23rd, 2010 at 3:53 am
They may get mad because as you said since they have a girlfriend that can take care of their needs now but it also could be that they are picturing themselves having sex with some other girl who they think is prettier than their girl and that if that girl would take them he would dump her and go for it. When we masturbate we most of the time visualize ourselves having sex with somebody who arouses us to make it feel better. I hope this helps you understand.