Unable to feel sexual pleasure, HELP!?
Quick details.. I’m 18, male, straight. I’ve never been able to feel sexual pleasure when with a girl, except during sex. Oral and hand stimulation does nothing. Even when I masturbate, I can only feel pleasure if I’m in a certain position. It frustrates me, because I want to be able to get off to oral, and my girlfriend really wants to be able to finish me that way, but i can’t feel it. Help! And if you know what you’re talking about, please, email me here so I can give you more information. I REALLY don’t want to live this way any more, it frustrates me so much. Help!
I’m not circumcised though =\ I kind of wish I was, maybe that would help
October 31st, 2010 at 1:23 pm
You may be a disfunctional robot. If you are certain you are not(a robot), consult a Urologist.
October 31st, 2010 at 2:02 pm
Damage from circumcision is probably responsible. Circumcision has no standards.
The usual loss of sensation is 50-75% but can be much more. The depth/location of the wounds to the penis vary wildly, as does the corresponding damage to sexual function.
That’s why more than 200,000 guys are using non-surgical foreskin restoration, to regain some of the sensitivity/function destroyed by the damage that is circumcision. While restoration won’t repair the permanent neural/vascular damage, it does vastly improve sensitivity/function.
Restoration isn’t easy, and it takes a couple of years to accomplish, but the results are permanent, and well worth the time, effort and discomfort.
Circumcision is a fraud and a hoax.
A foreskin is not a birth defect; it is a birthright.
ERIC
October 31st, 2010 at 2:38 pm
This is a common problem for circumcised men
but as you are Intact, then there two other possibilities
1 ) Guilt = some guys with religious ubringing blank out pleasure
2) Tight foreskin = preventing your foreskin from feeding back pleasure.
Though most guys foreskins have loosened up by 18
some guys have overtight dartos muscle in the collar.
Have a look here and see if any help
http://www.network54.com/Forum/244184/
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October 31st, 2010 at 2:41 pm
Circumcision would aggravate the condition, as calluses form and keratinization looms, meanwhile you’d be losing more than half the nerve-endings in your penis through the operation.
October 31st, 2010 at 3:14 pm
It may or may not have to do with circumcision. But lack of sexual pleasure is common in both cut and intact men. The fact you are not circumcised has absolutely nothing to do with it. It has more to do with mind. Some men that have watched pornos a lot expect too much, thus not concentrating on the actual sex they are having. Also, sometimes when you have things on your mind, sex can be rather boring. Some men just dont like things other than penetrative sex, you may be one of them.
Lots of comments about circumcision and stuff, but sex has a lot to do with your mind. Please consider this instead of circumcision.