I’m somewhat confused about the spread and creation of stds? If it’s impossible for me and the first person who say both have never had partners. Why would the second person get an std? or the third?
Where does it start from? assuming everyone was born without the std and not from their parent?

If there are no tongues touching, can a he get a STD?

I’ve taken the depo shot for 1yr, stopped it 2 months ago. I was depressed and nauseaous( thought I was pregnant all the time). Lost my sex drive, my man is blessed and I feel terrible because he is thinking he is doing something wrong, he is not!!!!!!! I still enjoy sex but I don’t orgasm at all unless I use my vibrator solo.When I do orgasm with a vibe, it’s so little like 1/4 of a teaspoon. It’s embarrassing writing this, It’s frustrating/sad/pathetic and I blame myself for choosing the depo as a form of birth control besides condoms.
If depo is to blame, how can I reverse it so I can go back to normal?
P.S: I’ve been off depo for 2 months, I am not depressed anymore,, getting back to my old self, laughing and smiling more. I wouldn’t recommend Depo to anyone!!!!!!!!!!! Although someone else may not have the same experience I had with it.

Thank you!

Don’t laugh ladies, I know I’m not the only one in the world with this problem. I know that their is no physiological reason for this either (for me anyway), but I have a high sex drive. I spoke with my doctor & he stated that some women make higher levels of testostrone then others; in turn causing a higher sex drive. I feel that it’s a curse that mens libdios are lower as they age.
Why is it that men’s sexual peak is at 18 and womens are at 40 (or in my case 30)? Is that not the cruelist joke that nature has for all of us? Older women have told me to date younger men, realistically, I find the older (5-10yrs.older) more attractive. So that doesn’t solve my problem. Serious opinions and ideas only!! P.S. Masturbating isn’t my thing, so please don’t suggest this. I am not overly consumed with this, I’m active and excercise, have plenty of hobbies. I dont think about it, this is more of a physical drive. Hope you can help, I want opinions from a woman & a male perspective

is there still a chance even if neither have ever had a history of an std but are not using protection while performing this?

Young man talks about gonorrhea…

I was speaking with an older woman from work and she was telling me about her aunt having to get some surgery because of so many years of Anal Sex being performed on her. Then she also said that she had also heard about a man having problems with his Prostate because some bacteria from the woman’s feces traveled up his Urethral and into the Prostate gland.

My question is, what are ALL the health risks that can come with having Anal Sex, for both the man performing it and the woman receiving it?

It is meant for intercourse with one person only correct? Well what if you come to find the one person you are intimate with is cheating, does that affect the person with the paragaurd if they had intercourse with the man before they found out. And if the woman decides to become sexually active with another person, should she have the paraguard removed? If not can that affect her?

my husband accidentally took MY birth control pill, is this dangerous?