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My dad has to be treated in 2 months.We are yet to decide the method.Indian doctor is not encouraging my dad to go for this technology.His gleason level is 2+2 and PSA is 32 where as volume is 45*35*36.Density is 31ml.Please help us knowing whether HIFU can help my dad.Your immediate response is highly appreciated.

My father has just found out that he has it but he has been ill since January,so i’m worried that it has spread further round his body is this possible,please give me as much info has possible as i’m very concerned..Many Thanks

I suffer from premature ejaculation. I’ve trie the different pc squeeze and the start stop but nothing is working. Ive read online that taking SSRI’s may help with my problem or even using viagara or cialis. Does viagara or cialis work with premature ejaculation or should I try and use Paxil or something? Where do I go to get a prescription for this? Should I see a urologist or a generic fam med doctor? Please help…..serious answers only….Thanks

I am currently taking goseralin acetate for three years and am wondering if the methotrexate and goseralin acetate are
compatible and if both are needed?

Does Viagra resolve the problem?

Is there any real guaranteed treatment of premature ejaculation?

I’ve been with my b/f for over 4 1/2 years. We are currently doing an LDR because he is in the Army and I’m still in school. When we are together everything is great, in fact I just came home after nearly 2 weeks with him. It was wonderful.

The problem here is that sometimes he just has a switch and he becomes really inconsiderate and mean. Things have been going so well for us and then last night he just ignored my text and calls. I found out later that he was just at home playing video games and didn’t want to talk/text me for no reason..but still texted his other friends. Not only was I confused because our convo earlier that day was all sweet and loving, but I was irritated because of the lack of consideration and tried to talk about it to him. I tried really hard to be nice and respectful because I know getting upset goes nowhere with him. However, he was just a total jerk and said mean things to me. Like that I was crazy and just talking to me makes him want to kill himself and stuff like that. He also talked about how he has no emotions, except anger, and that he didn’t want to hear about mine. Ha, guess that magazine article by some relationship therapist that said always start out conversations about points of conflict with ‘I feel…’ got it wrong with him. He went totally crazy on me today and all I could do was cry. Every time I tried to talk reasonable with him he just started saying crazy stuff, turned on the vacuum, and told me how I just make him want to kill himself, turn off his phone, etc.

I don’t know where all this came from. He has done it before and it doesn’t happen often but when it does it devestates me. Would this be considered a form of emotional abuse? He doesn’t ever say anything negative about my appearance, and the only rude things he says about what I do with my life is that I don’t have a job…but I’m on a full academic ride to college and I don’t need the money but I do need the study time! But those are the only things I know that qualify as emotional abuse. So I don’t know if all this qualifies but when he is like this it seriously feels like he is tearing me down from the inside.

I truly feel that he needs therapy for his anger and how he pushes back his emotions. I think a lot of his issues stem from his father being in prison. Almost two years ago his dad, who had seemed to be a perfectly normal, very likeable fellow, went crazy and killed his MIL (not my b/f’s grandma..his parents are divorced). Arguably she was a nut job but still. He was given a lighter sentence because it was considered temporary insanity stemming from a mixture of his radiation therapy (prostate cancer) and alcohol. My b/f and his father had just really began to heal their relationship within the past year before this as they had a rocky relationship when his parents split due to what all happened. My b/f doesn’t hardly ever talk about it to anyone and I’ve never bring it up. However, I know it has had a huge affect on him but he says that the only person he wants to talk to about all of his issues is his dad and he can’t talk to him…so he refuses to talk to anyone else, therapist or not. He just said this today during our convo where he was being hateful because I said maybe he should talk to someone about his lack of emotions. He also told me that his dad didn’t kill anyone..I’ve never heard him deny it before.

How should I react to all this? Should I run..how likely is it that he will change? Or should I stay because these times, which are very rare but very painful, are really the only negative part of our relationship? How can I talk to him about it? And should I consider calling his mother, who I have a good relationship with, and not tell her about all the meanness or our fight but let her know about the whole dad issue? She wouldn’t let him know that I had called but may be able to find a good time to talk to him about it..the boy really needs therapy, or so I think.