Well I have PCOS… just got diagnosed.
I told my doctor that my BF and I have been having unprotected sex for over a year (with him ejaculating inside me). And the doc was surprised that I wasn’t getting pregnant.
I skip 1 to 3 months in between cycles. I know my body and know I’m not ovulating.
I’m not trying to get pregnant. I know I still can if I have irregular cycles and having unprotected sex. My BF and say if it happens it happens. (we would be financially and emotionally ready if it happened)
So I asked my doc how can I get rid of this PCOS and have regular cycles and know that I’ll be able to conceive in the future.
He advised I see a fertility specialists to help me have regular cycles and to see if I can conceive in the future. He also said they might want a semen sample from my BF to rule out if he’s the problem because if they were to run tests on me straight out it would be very expensive for my insurance and before they begin treating they want to make sure it’s the woman’s fault and not the mans. but that was a MAYBE.
I told the same thing to my BF and he was so quick to say “what for?” and “I’m not doing that” he knows what I’m going threw, how depressing it is to not feel like I will ever have a baby (i know its possible though)
I’ve helped him with so much, he’s hit rock bottom, lost his car and job and when it happen I was taking him to work every day till he got back up on his feet. I’ve done too much for this guy.. .
Now after hearing his response I’m actually feeling like calling it quits. He made me feel so alone.. he didn’t let me explain that this could be done on his own time or even at home. all he cared about was he’s not doing it.. he said if I was single they would still run tests on me and blah blah what if I didn’t have a BF.
it makes me sad. I wish he would of been supportive and said yes babe anything to help you as he usually says. we got in a fight and now he says he’ll do it. But it don’t change the way he initially made me feel.