I recently found out that I have a STD. I had no clue before. I don’t know how I should go about telling my partners. I don’t want them telling everyone. I dont want them hating me either. I had no clue I had anything. But it is treatable, and i don’t want them to give it to other girls. Like one of them gave to me.

So ive been on birth control for 4 months now without my mom knowing. I couldnt tell her because she is obsessed with me getting raped and kids shouldnt have sex, she told me that i cant date until after im married now i know shes kidding but still i can tell in her voice that a part of her is serious. Shes very over protective, but i need to cut her some slack because when she was around my age multiple times my mom has been followed my creepy men (my mom is a very beautiful women and im not just saying that because shes my mom) she has had her drink spiked by guys and was rushed to the emergency room at 3 in the morning thinking she was going to die. Long story stort my mom is convinced the world is out to get me and i know that if i went to her about birth control shes assume the worst and just figure im having sex which is not the case at all. My period lasts a while, it comes a random times and my cramps are unbareable! Being on the pill has helped me sooo much! im not having sex and my doctor told me that i should tell my mom the thing is im so afraid shes gonna freak out, even though i got my belly button pierced and she wasnt mad at all. I dont know what to do please help me and please be nice!!

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My friend is 19 and thinks she has just gotten her first std. does anyone know a place that does test for free in Albuquerque, new mexico?? i thought there were clinics out here that did it for free, but my friend and i cant seem to find any.
thanks for all your answers i appreciate everyone’s reply!