I have a new bf who tells me he hasn’t been with a girl in over a year. I had sex with him and after had sex with my ex bf. Both of these guys have tested neg for std’s but I tested pos. I would not believe them but I had access to their test results. we all got tested at the same hospital.

Can you get an STD if your partner isn’t infected?

I recently found out that I have a STD. I had no clue before. I don’t know how I should go about telling my partners. I don’t want them telling everyone. I dont want them hating me either. I had no clue I had anything. But it is treatable, and i don’t want them to give it to other girls. Like one of them gave to me.

If someone goes to the doctor w/ documentation stating their partner tested positive for an std, will they automatically receive treatment or will they be tested?

Or never have kids or you will contrapt the STD?
Like once you get tested and you or your partner find out you have an in treatable STD then what?

I’m a virgin and my partner hasn’t had sex in over two years. He has no symptoms of anything so I’m guessing he has no STD. But my question is would it be possible for him to be carrying anything from previous girls that he could give to me? Such as HPV? Or any other infections?

My guy doesnt last as long as I would like for him to…what suggestions do you have for helping me last long and stopping him from having premature ejaculation???
When I saw premature ejaculation..I am referring to him only lasting 3mins tops..and that is on a good day..and after that he is unable to get an erection…

I’ve been seeing a guy for a while and were engaged in what I consider minimal foreplay, perhaps 5 minutes. It was the first time we were together sexually. I was on top with my head on his chest and belly, I was in trousers and a T-shirt, he was in boxers and tank top. We kissed a little bit, and then he said, “Let’s go to bed and hold each other.” When I stood up, I saw his semen stain on my trousers. He said, in a voice completely devoid of emotion, “I came on you.” He ignored me the remainder of the evening, no more talking, no more touching, no nothing. He was cold and distant the next day and then told me he wasn’t attracted to me! Needless to say, I was hurt and somewhat stunned. When I called him several days later to discuss what happened, he threatened to hang up on me.

I myself shut down after the premature ejaculation episode, so I was no help to him when he was probably clearly ashamed or embarrassed. I’m wondering if this is worth salvaging.

I hv unprotected sex wif my bf for twice only. Before this, me and bf dun hv any sex with other person before. And we have tested we dun hiv and std. But once, i have ulcer in my mouth. and i gave oral sex to my bf. can we both get any hiv or std?