Sex problems: Need professional Help! Can anyone help me?
Male: 20 years old Sex Life: Virgin/ 2 attempts which failed Problem: Haven’t been feeling motivated in my sex life with women ever since my first attempt in college which failed. Due to that event, my drive for sex has greatly decrease.Recently, I have gotten the urge to get an erection.A month or two ago, I have tried to masturbate to relieve some stress. After the masturbation I start to realize something very strange. Instead of my balls tighting back up. they feel loose and empty. This problem of mine has been going on for a month or beyond… I don’t know what to do in this state I feel that this is not normal for a male of my age.My ball sac has extra skin under neath and hangs like I said above. The problem I’m having doesn’t hurt and I went to a doctor and he said that my body is fine but I haven’t asked him about this situation. is it normal to have your balls/sac loose and hanging down for that long period of time after masturbation or not? Question: What do you think I should do?

I am 48 yrs old , married man. I simply cant come twice when we have sex. Sometimes, I have trouble getting erection even the next day or if I do get erection, it doesnt last long enough. Is this problem curable ? Is there any medication available — prescription or OTC. help me .

I’m only 19 years old… it will be too depressing to have to take viagra at my age

any natural alternatives for overcoming my erection problems?

I know I can’t expect an online diagnosis, but I’m hoping to at least getting some help on where to look next.
History:
He’s an otherwise healthy 58yo white male with no history of allergies or psychiatric illnesses. He’s about 6′, 185lbs, and prior to this mystery was in good health. There’s a history of severe migraines, slightly low blood pressure, and in the last year or so, a constricted prostate causing urinary issues.
Symptoms:
Starting in mid-2005, he started having more severe headaches/migraines that were attributed to stress. These felt different though and did not respond to medications. Over time, the headaches became frequent to the point of being daily and causing hospitilization. CTs, xrays, bloodwork, ekgs, etc, etc show no cancers, infections, swelling, or other physical evidence to explain the situation.
Notes:
Massive antibiotics seem to relive the pain and botox injections in the neck provide 2-6wks of semi-relief.
Any help would be appreciated!

I’m sorry this is a bit long, but I have a lot to cover. I’m a 19 year male and I have no idea where else to turn about this. First of all, I am a virgin. I don’t have a girlfriend, and I don’t really want one right now. I’m not planning on having sex either. However, that doesn’t change the fact that I want it and think about it a lot. What I desire out of sex seems to be something that nobody else can give me. I know this will sound really messed up, but I like the idea of having a casual conversation during sex. You know, just talking, maybe even laughing a little. Maybe it sounds weird to some people, but my thinking is that it’s a relationship that is so close that we are able to communicate deeply and have fun, even during sex. I mean, it just seems to boring just sitting there and saying nothing. To me, that just feels weird.

Maybe it’s just because I’m a very weird guy myself. I have ideas that people think I’m absolutely insane for having. But oh well, I’m unique, and I like that. But anyways, getting past that one part, there are other things I really need to mention. I’m not proud of it, but I’ll admit that I’ve had webcam sex with girls in chat rooms. I mean I guess my thinking is that it’s ok because it’s just casual fun and I’m not actually doing it in real life, but I don’t really know. Maybe I’m just playing around and experimenting, like some guys do. I have a lot of dirty fantasies. I mean like having multiple partners and sharing my wife (my currently non existent wife who probably wouldn’t go along with it anyways :3). And you know, maybe it’s just the male mind because it’s typically believed that males are programed to have as many female partners as possible to spread their genes, and it’s just me being a guy. I’d like to think I’m better than that, but who knows.

I’m very unsure if I want kids or not. I mean, if I didn’t, I could pretty much do whatever I wanted. But if I did, I feel that it would be in my best interest to be a good role model for them, and for me to go out and have lots of wild and crazy sex just wouldn’t be good. I’m not into anything extreme and weird, but there’s a lot of stuff I’d like to try I guess. I’m not at all ashamed of being a virgin. People flaunt their sex like it’s such a big deal. I’m a pretty romantic guy, and I honestly don’t think sex is all THAT important. I think it’s really no big deal. You meet up, have sex, spread your genes, and that’s that. I’ve learned that their are several different levels of sex, and you want a different level at different times. Sometimes you want it to be extremely loving and romantic, sometimes you just really want raw, purely animalistic sex. People like to believe they are above that, but when you get right down to a human’s basic traits, they are still just animals and they have basic needs and desires like every other animal.

used to be pretty uptight about sex, but now I’m more accepting. I even accept people who are promiscuous, as long as they are nice people, I have no problem with them. It really isn’t any of my business anyways. That doesn’t change the fact that I would rather wait until having sex, but I’m just tired of judging others. Too many people do this nowadays and they need to get over it. I guess what I’m asking is what do I do? Part of me just wants to go out and have sex any chance I get. Another part wants me to stay a virgin. I don’t really know what to do anymore. Maybe I just have a high sex drive, but I can’t help it. Can you please help me?

Please tell me an easy method to heal my premature ejaculation that 100% natural..

Ok, to start off this is my 3 month of being on Ortho TriCyclen. I have never been on birth control before and didn’t have any problems with my periods or anything. Now however since I started on it I’ve had a brownish discharge with a bit of pink and was noticable when I wiped. It started about mid cycle every month so far. This month was a little different, it started off with the discharge like usual, (not enough to fill a pad, but enough to warrant wearing one) and now its gone to straight bleeding as if I was having a light to medium period for the last couple days. Its been going on for about a week total with the discharge. I’ve been told it’s from my body getting used to the birth control, but how long does it generally take to get used to? I am sexually active and took a pg test but it was negative. I’m not sure what to do. I won’t get insurance til May and I can’t afford to get checked out. Any help would be appreciated, I don’t have any diseases as I’ve only had sex with one man and he’s clean. I just need to know if this is normal for women just starting birth control, or if I should be worried. Or if I should try changing the type of birth control I’m on. Sorry if its tmi, I just want to know whats wrong with me.

I dont want to take the nuvea ring because its not comfortable. Yes, I do know the risks of blood clots when on birth control. I do use condoms with out a doubt. But sometimes my man and I run out of condoms or dont really want to wear any. So I need help, whats the best birthcontrol out there?…thankx p.s my doctor asks me to tell her which birth control do I want to use and to do research.

Is there a medication for premature ejaculation?