Okay so I’m 18, male, and a Christian. One thing I’ve noticed when I was around 17 was that my sex drive went way up from what it had been previously. A little research showed me that Sex drive for males is strongest from age 18-25. I don’t believe in sex before marriage, that part is easy enough to refrain from but this whole not masturbating and not lusting thing is a lot harder then it looks and quite frankly I’m sick of trying to refrain myself from it. Its a pain in the neck worse then anything I’ve ever imagined. Its almost like trying to make myself black when I’m white or something. What in the world am I supposed to do? Lust is just genetically encoded into us yet the scripture and God that I love so much is telling me that its wrong. I feel like I’m being torn in two and I feel guilty about something I feel like I shouldn’t feel guilty about.
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Hey all. I am wondering if any of you can help me with a health issue I have been experiencing lately. I am a healthy 25 year old with a steady girlfriend, and have always had regular masturbatory/sexual habits.
Problem: When I begin to stimulate the glans of my penis (ie: knob), I almost instantly feel a strange and uncomfortable sensation in my perineum area, close to my anus. If I try to ignore the sensation and continue, the strange feeling builds until I have to stop. It is not a painful feeling as such, more uncomfortable and off-putting. Around the same time that this began I noticed that I suddenly needed to ‘push’ urine out during urination more than before. I have a strange feeling that some gland or muscle has been strained beyond repair.
History: Around a year ago I noticed that my masturbation technique had changed to ‘glans stimulation’ only (ie: knob stimulation only). In addition, I began to use the ‘stop and start’ technique, where I would stop masturbation just before climax, wait five minutes, then start the process again. I would also sometimes hold off masturbation for up to two weeks, then have one of these long sessions. As a result of these techniques, I found my masturbatory sessions could last up to four or more hours. Basically, I would never masturbate more than three times a week, but the sessions were long. One day, after a few hours of masturbating, I reached climax, only to notice that the ejaculate merely dribbled out of my penis, rather than the usual burst. Ever since this event, I have been experiencing the condition discussed above. I have seen several doctors about this, with no solution. I had my prostate checked, and was told it is normal.
Any advice is more than welcome.
Thanks for the quick response. I just wanted to add that I was prescribed anti-biotics as a ‘just in-case’. They did not help.
I had a break from masturbation for a week and have not had a session that has lasted longer than thirty minutes since (about three months ago). Problem persists …
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Today, I successfully ejaculated through masturbation without lotion or any kind of lubricant for the first time, but normally I use lotion and it takes about 12 minutes, and when I have sex it takes about 40. What I’m asking is, does masturbating without lubricant or lotion develop into premature ejaculation? Help please.. I don’t wanna come up short like some guys out there. =(
Good afternoon to you all!
The reason I’m in a cherry mood is that I had sex with my fiance for the first time
Anyways we ended up orgasming several time before she did, but I noticed that the amount of sperm wasn’t alot, I do masturbate quite alot, but I haven’t done so for three days prior to the event, so I’m wondering how much masturbation is too much?
I masturbate 2-3 times on a daily basis ever since I was thriteen
I know over-masturbation is harmful to one’s health, but I also know it’s healthy to masturbate to keep the prostate in tip top shape
So my question is, what is the reccomended “dosage”?
I also eat alot of foods that are said to increase amount of semen upon ejaculation
I know a little bit actually helps a mans prostate but does too much of it damage it or cause prostate cancer or other problems later in life.
If you think about it so many ageing men have it
My son told me that he does not wish to masturbate ever again in his life, because he says that your heart rate spikes when you orgasm.
He thinks it is similar to suddenly sprinting/running out of nowhere, causing your heart rate to spike for a few seconds before going back to normal, and he is worried that it will damage his heart in the long run. Obviously, sexual intercourse also ends with orgasm, so in that respect it is the same, which is why he has expressed a desire to abstain from all sexual activity.
I am worried that if he never “releases,” then he will be at a great risk for developing prostate cancer. I told him that it would healthiest to try to orgasm every week or even twice a week, but he is afraid of doing it ever again.
What I would like to know is, what is going to be more dangerous as far as his health is concerned … masturbating in the long run, or never doing it ever again?
Should he be concerned about his heart or about prostate cancer?
why is it even though I masturbate regularly, I still crave sex so much?
I am a 22 year old male and have always had a healthy sex drive and a pretty regular cycle for taking care of myself.
but shouldn’t masturbation help tide me over from craving sex so often? I know that if over done it increases chemicals that control sex drive and make it worse, but I don’t over do it. (I don’t think)
I am 16 years old and i recently found out that i have problem of premature ejaculation. I masturbate once every day, may b once after 2 days. And it became this frequent only this year. Last year, i didnt masturbate this much. If i stop masturbation, will it stop the problem of premature ejaculation?
Proper answers plz!
Do it or not im confused im 19 years old turn 20 December been masturbating for 2 months now for the 1st time started 2 months ago, im a male btw so i do it help prevent prostate or what ?