Im a 18 year old male and my girlfriend i have sex 2-3 times a week which was working perfectly fine until the last couple months. I smoke weed on a daily basis and i figure that its the main reason that i dont get hard like i use to/ i cant get an erection even when i want one. Lately, i have just been not masturbating to build up my hornyness but now even that isnt helping that much. Also, before i starting smoking just once a day which i started about a month and a half ago, i was smoking 2 to 3 times a day so i tried to cut down. I still have sex but i just have to not masturbate and not smoke all day. Im just wondering if there is some non presecription medicine to like increase my sex drive or make smoking weed not affect my sex life. i dont wanna choose between sex and weed, i feel like theres a way to have both. none of my friends that smoke on a regular basis have any sex problems and i dont know why, some of them even smoke more than me

Im a 25 years old male. I am having major mental/emotional issues including major anxiety, depression, along with mild-moderate ADD and OCD. And probably more. Im on meds but they only do so much and I need to vent about this before I go crazy. Everything is culminating and im a miserable wreck. I posted this question about my sexuality earlier if you are interested, if not, just keep reading: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoDlL_zx4PgTVpetGBmbE.fty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20110226164631AAieTdy

And that’s only one of my issues. Its an important one, but it is just one of them. I have major social anxiety as well as general anxiety constantly, I think I show some symptoms of APD too, Im paranoid all the time, im starting to notice my OCD more and my ADD doesn’t help things. Ive been suicidal. I don’t think I can carry it out, thankfully. I suffer from major depression though. Ive all but completely withdrawn from friends (even my closest ones), I don’t find pleasure in doing anything anymore…even hobbies I always loved. I can’t hold a job (although im trying very hard to get a new one that suites me better and im hoping that will help). I have no will to do anything anymore and I have near ZERO confidence. And I’m really starting to hate my family since I feel a lot of my issues stem from them…which sucks since I am stuck living with them. A lot of this realization has been a recent thing (past 2-3 years). I am now aware that what went on when I was young was NOT right but I didn’t realize this until recently….I dealt with different types of child abuse (incl. borderline sexual abuse too), cruelty to animals, domestic violence, constant lying, etc. My family was, IMO, very dysfunctional. I strongly feel that my parents have their own set of problems from their youth although they don’t really admit it…and it transferred over to me. I have twin siblings 2 years younger than me who have problems of their own which im sure is not a coincidence. My family is so closed off and rarely if ever admit when they are wrong. I cant believe my parents are still together and why they chose to do so is beyond me. From my perspective, I saw little affection between them growing up. Heck, they have not slept in the same bed for as long as I can remember…20+ years. And over the years I remember constant yelling and screaming and insulting etc. Seriously, what kind of example does that set for your kids in terms of forming good properly functioning relationships? Hell, I have even questioned if I am adopted and if my dad is gay! I am really starting to think they are the ones who F’d me up and now that I am really starting to think for myself, I realize so much was wrong. Its mostly on my dad (who I consider abusive toward the whole family) but my mother is emotionally weak and has problems of her own. But now I feel trapped in what seems to be a vicious cycle. And this is just part of my problems. Im just trying to cope as best I can and trying to put my life back in order. Ive opened up to people that I trust but I don’t know if it helped me or hurt me more. I always feel like im being talked about…which is human nature, but it hurts on many levels…almost like back-stabbing. Im pretty sure I lost a job opportunity because they knew some people I know that I have opened up to and some stuff was said. I can’t prove that but if its true…I mean, c’mon, that’s not even fair! This is just the tip of the iceberg but it should get the gist of the point across. Do you guys think this is the reason I have such a hard time with everything like forming friendships, romantic relationships, work ethics, constant lying, being super cynnical, and just plain emotional problems, etc? Im hyper-alert to anything that can be interpreted as negative toward me too and I take stuff personally that probably had nothing to do with me…BUT I CAN’T HELP IT, it just happens in my head. I feel like I am the product of stupid people having kids and I have to suffer the consequences for it!

Any comments, questions, concerns, etc are very welcomed.

Thanks

I’ve had my AVR surgery on December 17, 2007 and St.Jude mechanical valve size 22 is used. After surgery I feel that my erection is not that hard as was before surgery, I even feel reduced sex drive. I’m 30 Male, married. I was chain smoker, before surgery I use to smoke almost 40 cigarettes a day, but I quit since I went through my surgery, I haven’t had a single cigarette since then neither I’ve any desire to do so. Currently my Hemoglobin is 10.4.
My question is that is there any relation between AVR surgery and sex life, if yes then how can I overcome this problem. Thank you in advance for your kind guidance, please.

Would you live the same?
Would you stop being conservative and turn into a nympho?
Would you do lots and lots of partners?
etc.

Help! My 76 year old grandpa’s health is failling due to Prostate Cancer, Alzheimers and just recently had a heart attack yesterday night…In fact, I had an OBE dream where I felt like something was sucking my soul out of my body through the nape of my head…and I felt like I was suffocating( yet I was totally aware)..I started to come out head first. It was DARK I couldn’t see anything. But yet I coudn’t have been dreaming- I was in a relaxed state right before it happened…and tried to wake myself up but found my heart racing, trying like to scream out, and moving my head back towards my body..This weird sucking sensation? Ya had those before?..So, I moved my feet a little and suddenly I JURKED into my body or woke up with a jurk. Anyway, any NATURAL REMEDIES or tips on how to PROLONG HIS LIFE? These dreams are serious to me and….I think he doesn’t have long to live.

Besides Bayer,should I change his diet? Any teas? Wine? Vitamins? Omega ? Anything please help!!!!!

This is a SERIOUS ?

I need some teqniques that work or something. I’m 25 years old and want to fix this! HELP

I heard every man will get it sometime, unless they die before. Is this true?

Hello everyone I am a 16 year old daughter whose experiencing a family problem. My father is a policeman and had to stay in his office even though he’s health is really poor. And I know he’s doing it to fulfill his duty as well as to support our family. His relationship with my mother is somehow unexplainable that’s why I am the one who stay in his office and take care of him. But I ram really having problems to cope with that. Of course, I want to be always in his side and do everything I can. But sometimes I tend to be really weak. My father’s liver is not functioning well. Some kind of liver cirrhosis early stage, He has a cardiovascular problem and now prostate problem too. That’s why his circulation of urine is very slow. But he needs to secrete some fluids though his liver can’t filter it well. He take many medications and been hospitalized twice. But he wants to stay in his office. I know that he’s trying hard to fight for his diseases..That’s why I’m asking for your help. I don’t know how to take care of him. I don’t know the right food to give , treatment and therapies.. Because i know for the fact that the connection of his liver, heart & prostate problem is very delicate and If I give something against in his body.. I think it may be worsen. Guys, your concern and answers would be a great help to save my father’s life. I am also stressed out regarding on how I can handle this very important trial in my life. Thank you and God Bless
i feel relieved to share my thought with you guys.. his doctor already gave the medicines he have to take and food that he should avoid. my problem is , he’s very choosy and get irritates quickly. when he wants something, he should have it. I feel that it is not right to act like that in his office. I can still be patient becoz i’m his daughter but how bout his men, I am shy that many people are getting disturbed with his act. In addition,My mom’s opinion was my father should don’t feel his invalid and have to stop resting in his bed. Somehow, I feel that too but I am really confused. My heart is telling that my father is really in pain. But my brain says, his physically alright by just maintaining taking up his meds, eat proper diet. Sometimes he’s grumpy to me whenever I can’t fulfill his demands. ( I don’t usually follow his demand when I feel that it’s not good for him)