Hi. My girlfriend and I have been dating exclusively for over 5 years and we are both 20 now. When we started having sex a few years ago, we determined it would be a good idea for her to start taking birth control pills.

She started with Ortho Tri Cyclen Lo, but it made her spot very frequently. She visited her Dr. and got a pill with a higher dosage of hormones: Ortho Cyclen. She was on this for quite some time, but if she did not take it at EXACTLY the same time, she would have two week long periods. She visited a school clinic and they switched her to the generic form of Mircette called Kariva. She has been on this for just about 2 months now.

She has been on some form of birth control pills for probably about two years. I have noticed a great lack in her sex drive, especially recently. It is hard to say how she was before she started taking pills since we didnt have sex until she started taking them.

Being a young man, I believe I have an average/above average libido, but her’s seems to be almost none. I am almost always the one to suggest sex or any other type of business, and it is really starting to bother me. She does certain things and enjoys them in the process, but I really sense no passion from her and when its my turn it seems more like she’s doing it just to pay me back. She’s not against getting busy by any means, but I feel like if I never initiate it it will never happen. This bothers me as I want us both to be comfortable and feelings to be mutual.

Is it possible that cessating her BCP regimen will bring things to a more normal level? I have to say that we have a unique relationship compared to most teens because we are very serious and have had deep feelings for each other for 5 years strong. I would never ever leave her because of one thing that bothers me, I will learn to deal with it. But, things would be much more plesant if we were on the same page so to speak.

We’ve talked about it only recently because I debated for a long time whether I should just deal with it or risk hurting her feelings. She really wishes she could feel the same way I do about sex, but can’t just snap her fingers and make it so. So that is when I suggested maybe it is her pills doing it as it is a common side effect, and maybe stopping for a few months could be a benefit. What do you folks think?

**I truly appreciate it if you read this whole thing and can offer any of your wisdom. Thank you!

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I’m really wondering if the condition causes some sort of change in the body chemistry for males, especially in terms of sex drive or testosterone levels. I had gynecomastia when I was a child, but had plastic surgery to cover it, and I notice that many males at my age simply had more competitive drive and anger issues than I ever did.

Of course, it could be upbringing as well, but this idea just piqued my curiosity.

Thank you in advance for your answers!

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