never had sex but i still have sex drive and erections.

Thing is i have an area on the shaft that got damaged one day some years ago(through masterbation that damaged the nerve) and it hurts like crazy even with little touching.

Penetration involves putting the whole thing in a woman, and i’ve heard that the vagina tightens or wraps around the penis..thus this would grab the shaft and basically act as if it was a hand. i’ve experimented to see what hurts and i know pulling, pressing, or anything even with the lightest touch gives me very bad pain………so i dont even want to do thatt .

But how can i cope when i’m not even impotent(erection wise) and i have super strong desire.

im 28 male

This problem started about 4-5 years ago but I have been too embarrassed to do anything about it. It first started in high school. I had just been diagnosed with adderall and welbutrin and took about 30mg of adderall per day. After a few weeks, I noticed that my penis had barely any blood flow to it, and when I peed I could not finish.. As in pee would get stuck in my penis because the veins were so constricted that the pee could not escape until later when I walked around. My penis lost almost all sensitivity and I sometimes could not get an erection even while watching porn. I also drank a lot of caffeine and used tobacco at this time which I now know could have also contributed to the problem. I stopped using ADD medecine completely, and almost completely stopped drinking caffeine after this, but the problem still exists today about 4 years later. My penis is always way smaller than it used to be, and I never get erections. It has been an extremely embarassing thing for me over the years. I have hooked up with different girls on about 5 different occasions and not been able to get it up. These were all horrifying and lately I just never go out any more encase a girl wants to hook up with me ( when really I should be doing the opposite at age 23). Since then I have been depressed, and have smoked marijuana at least every other day and drank heavily for about 3 years (I stopped now). When I do get an erection, its almost like blood is completely blocked from flowing to the front underside of my penis. It curves slightly upward because of this , and a feeling of pleasure that I remember from the past of blood flowing to the head of the penis is not there at all. I still can not finish peeing, and almost always have to basically squeeze my penis from the base up a few times to make sure pee doesn’t leak out onto my pants and make me uncomfortable when I’m done. I have also developed other health problems recently which are also extremely embarssing. One being that almost every time I poop it stings when I wipe and there is small amounts of blood afterwards. I feel like such an idiot for not going to the doctor even though this has been all thats on my mind for the last few years, and I can’t even seem to work up the nerve to tell any friends or my parents. Any help or suggestions I could get on where to begin would be great. I still can’t get a proper erection, and even then only last for a very short amount of time, and my penis while unerect is smaller than it was about 7 years ago. I have completely quit drinking caffeine + smoking cigarretts for the past 5 months and still have no changes. I don’t know if i have a prostate problem, a damaged urethra, a damaged vein in my penis, or what but I need help badly I really don’t want to live my life not being able to ever start a family or meet women because I am scared that they will want to go to bed with me and I won’t be able to get it up. I finally worked up the nerve to call a urologist lately and they said ED problems are not covered by insurance.

I’m only 19 years old… it will be too depressing to have to take viagra at my age

any natural alternatives for overcoming my erection problems?

I am a 17 year old male. I was a virgin until just recently. About a week ago I was with my girlfriend and one thing led to another and we began to have unprotected sex. I was only in her for about two minutes when I noticed my erection started to decrease. Pretty soon it had gone completely flaccid. This upset me a lot. Then last night we tried again but the same thing happened again after only like two minutes. Now while I’m asking my question I’ll ask this question as well, My girlfriend is about to have her period when we had sex (both times unprotected). How likely is she to get pregnant cause shes worried she might be. I did not ejaculate into her, however, I think a fair bit of pre-ejaculate got into her. Now back to my other question, why is my penis going soft when I begin to have intercourse? I don’t think a 17 year old should be having this problem. I like to think I’m very fit and healthy, however I have been smoking a fair bit of marijuana recently. I am thinking this is perhaps due to stress. I have been driven from my home and I have been renting in the city with my brother. He is trying to kick me out because I can’t afford to live there. I am trying my best as I’ve been working full-time and going to school. But to work full-time I have to work very late and sometimes won’t get off work until 1:30 a.m. which doesn’t give me a lot of sleep when I have to be up by six for school. Which isn’t good cause I’m a very heavy sleeper and I’ll be so tired that my alarm clock will sound but will not wake me. This has caused me to miss a fair bit of classes and now because of the absences I have been kicked out of school and will have to try next semester at those classes again which means I will be a super-senior. I can not go back to my parents home and if my brother kicks me out I will have nowhere to go cause I don’t think anyone will rent to me cause I’m still 17. Also I had an accident recently which will set me back very far financially which is horrible cause after paying rent, car insurance, bills, groceries, and gas in my truck, I’ll be flat broke every month. This doesn’t leave me a lot of money, or time for that matter, to do stuff with my friends and girlfriend. I am under a lot of stress and its ruining my life. I think I may have an anxiety disorder because of it. Another question, is there some sort of government plan or something where the government can aid me financially (I live in Alberta, Canada). So now back to my penis, do you think its related to the stress, the smoking weed (I only do this to relieve stress and I’m going to quit), the anxiety, or perhaps nervousness. I’ve never had sex before then, or a girlfriend for that matter and I think I’m too conscious about my performance in bed and I start to feel nervous and then frustrated when my erection starts to drop. I just want to live a normal life and be able to have a healthy relationship with my girlfriend.
Also, I find that I’m depressed all the time. I don’t want to be, but I can’t help it. I find that the only time I’m ever happy is when I’m with my girlfriend. Could this be a reason for it? Its not like i begin to think about these things during sex. I just start thinking about the sex and my erection will start to go away.
Perhaps another cause for this is fatigue. I get very little sleep and am working a lot. i still have to go to school in the morning cause i’m still in gym and drama and i need the credits, but I was kicked out of the core classes that i needed. And i like to pick up my girlfriend and drive her to school too. I don’t want to worry about the next time we feel the urge to have sex it’ll happen again. I just want to be able to satisfy her and feel good about myself. I don’t want to feel stressed about it either, the stress is tearing me apart and i recently found out that I have severe bruxism because of it.

i have normally 4 times of sex activity per week i need some enhancing remedial natural measure to perform deep anal sex?

Am in early seventies, with moderate ED; Now, With Medicare supporting this method, (with Dr approval), it seems like a good possibility for improving satisfaction, (for both of us ) in this arena…have just acquired one and started a Break-in period..Thus far, am somewhat encouraged by some very MODEST results, but am wondering who else like me has more experience with this system, like having used one for months or years, and how that all went. My doctor (s) frankly seem to lean toward using the Blue Pill, but I’m frankly inclined toward a more NATURAL, non-pharmaceutical method, for my Long term health result… Another factor in my situation is having had LASER Prostate reduction about 16 months ago. (No cancer ), so now my prostate is smaller ( but not small )…what effect does that have on all this? Last, should I resume taking Prostate nutrients, e.g. Saw Palmetto

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I’m 19 years old. Lately, I’ve been finding it hard to keep a solid erection, and it’s concerning me. I masturbate daily, and I was wondering if doing so could have any relation to a lower libido and and a softer erection. It’s bothering me, because I’m worried if this could be like this forever. If I lay off for, say a week or two, would my libido increase? Also, would a multi with a good amount of zinc help? I’ve heard it’s really good for men’s sexual health. Thanks to any help