I have been dating the same guy for 9 months and we are each other’s first relationship and first kiss and everything else. We mess around and stuff, but neither of us have ever had any sort of STD’s. Is it possible for us to develop one if we mess around?

Ok, so I’m 23 and my boyfriend is 26. We have been together 3 1/2 months, both come from christian backgrounds. i know he is serious about me; i know he doesn’t cheat on me. he’s a total computer nerd homebody guy.
OK, so he
1) doesn’t work out [beergut. i think its cute but..]
2) smokes a hell of a lot…weekdays at least 6 ciggs a day+
So he often says he’s got a ‘lower than normal male sex drive’
so, he has turned it down many times that i have come onto him. also, there have been 3 times that we’ve been having sex and he will get soft and lose the erection.
i have told him its hard for me; whenever i’m in the mood he isn’t…whenever i could care less he is; visa versa. I talked with him this morning and he just seems to want to accept it.
My main question is…wouldn’t he go to the doctor if this is affecting me so negatively? i’ve told him it affects my esteem and i’ve broken down and cried many times. i think maybe he has some other problem because he just doesn’t care

I’m 13 years old and always feel like having sex but I’m afraid of like STD’s and AIDS and HIV… I know to use protection and I’m on birth control. But how do I know if my boyfriend has any of those things? I’m not just gonna go up to him and be like do you have any sexually transmitted diseases?? WIll condoms protect against them?? Is there anything I can take or my boyfriend can take from me getting these diseases?? UGHHH this is so frustrating!!

since january he said he just doesn’t even want 2 have an orgasism or care. he works alot and his teenage daughter is living with him and getting into alot of trouble. i think he is just stressed out and it will pass. please help guys mostly bcz u know how the male body works or doesn’t. he says it isn’t me and pleasures me but he can’t even get an erection. we have talked and he is very frusrated so i try noy to make a big deal out of it so he doesn’t get it in his head and then he reall won’t be able to snap out of it.

He’s tried the orgasm first then have sex (he just goes again) technique and I’m worried about the cremes since I have my own issues and do not want to be numbed myself. Also what’s the best way to clue him in that just because he had one doesn’t mean it’s over, I would like to have one too, any way he can. I don’t want to embarass him further.

I’ve had sex with my boyfriend, but never unprotected, is it possible to contract an STD even if we’ve never had unprotected sex?
By protection I do mean Condom. What I want to know is can you catch anything serious?

So my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now, were both 18 and are both very clean. Neither of us have had sex or oral sex with anyone else. Were both very clean of sexually transmitted diseases. Is there any way I can still get any kind of sexually transmitted disease from him even though hes clean. (and yes im 100% sure hes clean)
So my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now, were both 18 and are both very clean. Neither of us have had sex or oral sex with anyone else. Were both very clean of sexually transmitted diseases. Is there any way I can still get any kind of sexually transmitted disease from him even though hes clean. (and yes im 100% sure hes clean)…..?! let me know ASAPPP!

It takes a bit too long for him to reach climax again, this is getting frustrating… we have discussed the fact that he ejaculates very quickly (roughly two minutes after penetration) however he doesn’t seem to be a ble to control it… any advice? Thank you.