Websites or search query phrases that might help? I need to get tested and it needs to be free.

Okay, I met a girl about 2 weeks ago, she had not had sex for a long time and is pretty inexperienced because she is still in highschool. She is 19, I’m 24.

She is on the pill actually, I didn’t know she was the last time we had sex.

I made her show me the type etc, it was “Yasmin” and she took the pill in front of me, and half the pack was empty cuz she had been taking it obviously.

I get paranoid girls will stop taking the pill or pretend to to get knocked up, my dad has warned me about the occasional freaky girl who wants to get knocked up by you and keep you forever or so she thinks.

Anyways, I want to know HOW effective birth control really is.

I came inside of her this morning, she was ontop of me, but I came very hard and it was alot of semen because thats the second time in 5 years I’ve actually had sex.

It was pretty embarassing it was literally dripping out all over the sheets, so I had to change them.

I’m really worried, about getting her pregnant. I wouldn’t abandon her or anything if it happened and I would man up and take responsibility for my child and for her, since I care about her and would want to be together for the child and us.

I just hear ALOT of horror stories about the pill failing. I don’t believe it’s 99.9% effective. I believe it’s more like 99% effective so every 1/100 or 200 you get a girl pregnant maybe?

how effective is it? And why do women still get pregnant while on the pill.

Her mother got pregnant with her at 20 when she was ON THE PILL. So since she is born from her mom, I am concerned her body chemistry is the same and she might be able to get pregnant while on the pill.

She has never had a guy cum in her before, and she really likes it and, I like it alot too, it makes me feel very close to her. It increases the pleasure by 100% and it feels like we got closer for some reason.

It just feels like there is more feeling to the sex when I cum in her thats all. Feels there is more emotion and care and love and stuff.

Maybe some of u know what I mean. I just bond more and more with her when she gives me good sex like that.

I really care about her and I don’t want to get her pregnant.

IS this RISKY?

Is it going to result in a baby if we have sex 2 days a week, about 4-5 times in total for the 2 days?

Thanks everyone I appreciate the help
SORRY ABOUT THE LENGTH I JUST WROTE WAY TOO MUCH!!!
My problem is I trust women too much. I trust they won’t cheat on me and bring home an STD but women and men are equally as slutty, women may even be a bit more slutty than men and more calculated and deliberate in their sexual misadventures.

when I have sex it means something. IT means I love the person. I do not have sex, I have only had sex with her and I only did it because i care about her alot and want to be there for her through everything, in any capacity but I really would like to date her for a few years and marry her after awhile.

Im too traditional I guess. Im dreaming if i think she won’t fuk aroudn on me
THANK YOU EVERYONE!!

GREAT INFORMATION!!!!!

I feel like I understand this more. I better tell her to take the pill at the same time everyday, cuz she isn’t doing that. And I will find out when she ovulates and invest in some spermicide.

Great help, you ALL DESERVE 10101010 points!
Thanks Everyone, I really APPRECIATE all the answers.

Except for the guy who called me a pig for having consentual sex with my girlfriend who is an ADULT (19 y/o)

I believe she is taking the pill, I don’t think she lies, and I don’t think she wants to get pregnant but u guys are right women do play dirty tricks on men, try to get pregnant to keep the man when they feel they are losing him etc.

She already knows Im not going anywhere for as long as she wants me I am there for her. She doesn’t need to become pregnant, I will love her tomorrow and the next day and so on..

I will research ovulation since I didn’t know about it. Maybe we will wear condom while she is ovulating.

Spermicide is interesting, I wonder where to get some. It would help, because I ejaculate a large volume compared to most men and it woudl be good to havesomething that kills the sperm before they go up inside of her.

I wonder if they taste bad?

anyways THANK YOU ALL!

Medical expert of experts Obama is now saying that testing both for breast and prostrate cancer is way overdone. That older Americans should just be happy and not worry about such things. Do not get tested. So says Doctor Obama, MD.

http://www.rushlimbaugh.com/home/daily/site_102109/content/01125114.GUEST.html

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/07/08/business/economy/08leonhardt.html

http://health.usnews.com/blogs/heart-to-heart/2009/03/23/what-to-make-of-the-prostate-cancer-screening-studies.html

Does Obama want more to get cancer sooner? A cost cutting move?
Just as “Early Retirement” reduces your cost to the Corporation, so too does Obama’s propose to take over your medical decision-making and make medical choices that are best for the government reduce your lifetime cost to the government.

Let’s face it — breast and prostrate cancers are a form of early retirement for the costly elderly and under Government health care such cost reductions are a good thing.

For Obama.

asas advised own chosen medical advisors
Edits for a cleaner take two of that above:

Just as “Early Retirement” reduces your cost to the Corporation, Obama’s proposal to take over your medical decision-making and have his people make your medical choices reduces your lifetime cost to the government.

Let’s face it — breast and prostrate cancers are diseases of those over unproductive citizens over 50. Thus Obama’s proposals are a form of early retirement for the costly geezer class.

Under Government health care such cost reductions are a good thing, to Obama and his youthful fans.
Okay — take three! –

Just as “Early Retirement” reduces your cost to the Corporation, Obama’s proposal to take over your medical decision-making and have his people make your medical choices reduces costs to the government.

Let’s face it — breast and prostrate cancers are diseases of those largely unproductive citizens over 50. Thus Obama’s proposals are a form of early retirement for the costly and burdensome geezer class.

Under Government health care such cost reductions are a good thing, to Obama and his youthful fans and voters.

i was using Methadone but 7 months before stoped methadone and Swtiched to Suboxone .now i am on 1 tab(2mg) per day from 4 tab in start.i am getting Premature Ejaculation which is ruing my relations.Plz,let me know how long this HYPERSENSITIVITY OF NERVE go and IS there Any Medication .

i’m going to put as much detail into this question as i can, so please ignore the length and read on, for my sake.
let me start it off like this: im a 15 going on 16 year old boy who has had sex once and it was unprotected. i have also gotten oral sex twice unprotected.

the first time i got a blowjob was just over a year ago, from a girl who had never been sexually active until then.
the last time was about 7 or 8 months ago from a girl who had been with many guys unprotected, but was tested at the clinic a month or two prior which came up clean.
the time i had sex was about 5 months ago, like i said unprotected. the girl had been with a guy before that for about a year and they had sex a lot but that was her first and i was her second.

i feel as though the symptoms have been going on since before i even had any sexual activity at all.
for a long time i have questioned the health of my penis, but havent gone to a doctor. this is partly because im not going to go to my parents about it, and it hasnt really scared me enough to force myself to bring it to my parents, if you know what i mean.
the reason it hasnt scared me that much even though its been going on for a while is because i dont feel extreme pain or anything. i know that sounds stupid.

so now for what i have been experiencing:
-since before i even had any sexual experiences, i had started to notice extreme itchiness of my foreskin, ballsack and the place where pubic hair grows above the penis. the itching is sporadic and i havent noticed much for probably 2 months or so.
-tiny red dots on penis head, gone within a day to a few..
-a red splotch on the penis head that doesnt stay long either.
-extreme dryness when my foreskin is pulled down (i am uncircumsized)
-right underneath the head of my penis (on the side thats facing me) its really light almost white skin, it seems unnatural
-i have had a small amount of discharge a couple of times, which is what has started to worry me.
-when moisturized, the penis head still becomes dry very quick.
-for ever since i can remember (before any sexual activity) there has been this white bump on the foreskin that you can only see when i am erect and the skins pulled back.
-aching testicles, not too bad but still aching.
-acne looking bumps on legs (not sure if this has anything to do with it, just putting it in there)
-acne looking bumps around pubic region

if i can think of any more i will add more. by the way i have a friends mother who i am close to that says she will take me to the walk in clinic or emergency room, but she is gone until either tomorrow or the next day, thats why im asking on here since i cant get there for another couple days.

thank you for any help.
UGH i didnt think it would be THAT long.. again please read it if your willing and know about this sort of thing.. and the starred out word was the term for oral sex i used.
i dont see how you can go about saying im too sexually active.. it was literally 3 events with months between each other.. please i do not need to hear that.. i havent done it since the last time at all. i need someone to give an educated opinion not a link to a site or criticism. i have gone thru every website i could find.
i dont see how you can go about saying im too sexually active.. it was literally 3 events with months between each other.. please i do not need to hear that.. i havent done it since the last time at all. i need someone to give an educated opinion not a link to a site or criticism. i have gone thru every website i could find.

I recieved oral sex earlier today (4 hours ago) and I look at my penis. I have small reddish (mostly white) bumps at the base where the pubic hair grows. I am not sexually active and this was my first time interacting. The person I was with was tested 6 months ago (neg) and claims not to have seen any symptoms.

Would a symptom for an STD show up 4 hours later? What could be the explanation for this?

Not Viagra, Cialis or Levitra – Something new or even a natural remedy ??

ok here’s my situation…I’m 18 yrs old and lost my virginity to my bf at 17. My mom knows we’ve had it and she said I need to get checked by the doctor so my man is taking me in tomorrow. My mom told me that if I want 2 b on birth control I have to get a yearly check up. Other than my bf I don’t allow any one to touch me or see me naked. I don’t want to get a physical, pap smear or mammogram done at all but i want birth control. What should I tell my doctor, what should I do and what should I tell my bf?(my bf wants me to get the physicals done and he wants me on birth control too)

I have been with my fiance for many years. He has a problem with premature ejaculation. It seems like it is getting worse. We have sex for about 20 seconds. I love him very much but I have no sex life. What can I do? We are only in our mid twenties.

I’m 16 and I’m about to have sex for the first time. I haven’t masturbated in like a week and a half, but when I do masturbate, I ejaculate in like five minutes. Does this mean that I have premature ejaculation? I hope not because I don’t wanna feel embarrassed when I tell the girl I ejaculated and were only five minutes into sex.