the foreskin has more nerve endings that the entire rest of the penis.
uncircumcised males can has sexual activity without lube.
orgasm is 3x more intense in uncircumcized males
circumcisions leads to reduced sensitivity over time

We’ve been married 2 years. I’m 26 and my wife 24.

Well, I have a few questions: Take time & answer :

1) My wife finds it a bit hard to get aroused too quickly. This is not in the case of watching “porn”. Sometimes I need to work “LOT”, to make her wet.. But most of the time she is not interested in S3X at-all. we get-together once in a week or a fortnight. Could thi be due to HORMONAL imbalance. Can this be treated / any medicine / prescriptions ?

2) Medical reports (in internet) / science websites claim that at 3″ inside the v@gin@ the cervix is accessible; but I’m sure that within 1 to 1.5″ I’m able to touch/feel her cervix. Is this the case of short vagina. Could this lead to any complications in bearing a child / delivery ??? Besides, every body say that the “sensory nerves” are within the first 3cm; but for her whether I insert my manhood or even my finger; she says that she feels nothing but IRRITATION / burning SENSATION (though we both are clean) !!! I wonder why…..

3) But I make sure to bring her orgasm every time we get-together. I use the G-Spot stimulation (she doesn’t have a PARTICULAR spot instead, the entire roof skin is sensitive) in combination with clitoral (in-direct) stimulation. I’m happy with that, but when I try her for a second round; she goes off the mood and repulses. I tried to convince by ALL SORTS; but she is stubborn. Is this any sexual disorder / physical-mental dis-likeness towards S3X??? Can medication / any means bring her to normal; where I can give her pleasure say 3 to 5 times in a row ???

4) Now a days she is NOT interested in 69 / Oral / even giving me a hand-job. What i feel is that she doesn’t like S3X. I’ve even asked this directly to her. But she says “I’m NOT interested”….. What do I do???

Thanks in advance.

Please take this seriously.
I am a male who had a recent sexual encounter with a female stranger, who has multiple sex partners (for sure). We used condom, in the middle of intercourse, I pulled out and then she started pleasuring me with her hands and mouth, with the same condom still on. Virginal fluid was obviously on the surface of the condom when she was touching it. Then all the sudden she stuck one of her fingers into my anus. I am afraid!! Was I exposed when her fingers were still moist and one went inside my body? This is the first time with a stranger and I don’t know what the heck I was thinking. Can HIV virus spread this way? I am very nervous at the moment. Please provide helpful comments. Thank you.

Two people are in a relationship. Keep in mind, although they are two very different people, they both want something similar.. AFFECTION. They both want to feel loved. Even if their way of expressing affection differs, it all comes down as being the same thing.

The guy wants to have sex, is ready for sex, and has no emotional ties to it. Views it as a recreational activity. The girl understands that engaging in sexual activity is pleasurable without a doubt, but is cautious to have sex because of fear and uncertainty after the act. Thoughts like “What if he leaves me after?” “Is it worth it?” “Is it even supposed to be worthy?” come across her mind.

Is there really a difference between enjoying sexual gratification and enjoying emotional gratification? The big picture is that even though they are different things, you’re getting pleasure from both.

This is my situation. My boyfriend is the type of guy that doesn’t get emotionally attached to girls but enjoys having sex. Sounds like the typical male right? I’m the type of girl that develops actual feelings and compassion towards a person I love. That seems pretty common too. So what’s the problem? While I don’t believe that my boyfriend would actually leave after I have sex with him, I’m still cautious to have sex with him. But why? It’s just sex. We’ve had oral sex before, and outercourse (kinda like sex with clothes on) Pretty much everything except for the actual penetration. What difference would it make if we went all the way? He’s not good at expressing his feelings through talk, but excels at it physically. Can someone be completely blunt about this? He’s not a bad person, he tries to make me feel comfortable and “pleases me” I mean it feels good….. but I feel like I’d be losing something If I had sex and I don’t understand what and why. -_- (not just virginity, obviously, but something more…..)

So I’m an 18 year old circumsized male. Over the weekend my new girlfriend blew me while we were wasted. It was cool to finally get oral but It felt somewhat uncomfortable, and there were only a few seconds of pleasure that was very minimal. She did it for like 10 minutes and I couldn’t stay erect so i put it away and told her i was probably too drunk. However this week she’s done it twice sober and the same thing happens, it doesnt feel good at all and i lose my semi erection pretty quickly. She knows what shes doing shes blown a couple other guys off before, and Im attracted to her both emotionally and physically so I don’t understand what the problem is. I was expecting it to feel amazing like everyone says, and I thought this problem was unique to me, but my good friend said he has the same problem except he stays hard, and even during sex it feels decent but sometimes he cant ejaculate and his hand does a better job. He says hes read somewhere that masturbating every day without lube, something we both have done, can damage the nerves in your penis. I am extremely worried this may be my case. From 13 to 17 I made myself ejaculate in a weird way by rubbing my boxers against my penis until i ejaculated, which wouldn’t really squirt, but kind of pour out. I know it sounds weird, but I felt masturbating the normal way was uncomfortable, and through my method I would get off in 3 minutes sometimes. This year I started doing it the normal way, but always dry because with lube I really dont enjoy it, and it usually takes me like 20 minutes although I can get off in 5 if I desire. After ejaculating, it kind of hurts when I get an erection for the next two hours, I’m not sure if this is normal. Also, Ive smoked high grade marijuana once or more a day for the past 18 months. Ive heard this can interfere with semen amount over the years, but I have many friends who have smoked twice as long as I have just as frequently who don’t share this no pleasure in a blow job feeling. I am extremely worried because I am supposed to have sex with her next week and I want to be able to enjoy myself and stay erect for her while we engage. I can get hard and get off just fine when I masturbate, and I wake up almost every morning with a full erection that lasts for a little while if I think about sex. Please tell me what my problem could be, if its permanent, and what solutions you would suggest. Should I stop masturbating completely? If problems persist I will see a doctor but I would rather solve it myself if its possible and save telling my mom I have a sexual dysfunction that I need to see a doctor for because she is unaware of me even having a girlfriend.

(P.S, I know this might not be the best question for yahoo answers but I use it for most of my normal questions so I thought I’de try it out before going to a sex forum, so please don’t make dumb jokes and what not I’m really concerned about this and any suggestions are more than welcome)

Hi, I’m 15 years old and I really really like this boy who is 13 years old. I don’t know what it is but I just have a soothing pleasure when i’m in his company. Last night I had a sleep over with my strange nephew (who is 13) and this boy called Gregor who I’ve known for years, its only since hes been going through puberty I’ve been staring to get attracted to him. I could go on and on describing his really mature personality and fantastic looks with peal white uniform teeth but anyway, us 3 ran out of space to sleep in the night and I thought we could sleep downstairs in the extension. So we got our covers and went down to the extension in my house and shared each others secretes… He said nothing at all (that was big) my nephew told his and then i taken about 15 mins to say “if i was a girl i would go out with you (Gregor)”, about 3 mins later my nephew told him i fancied him! Gregor was shocked and disturbed for the first 2 mins but then just said “oh i didn’t think i was that good looking” so you’re bi then?”, I said i don’t know. We are all in a strong Christian branch of religion that don’t agree with homosexuality at all, and i don’t want to give up god! (I’M NOT ASKING FOR YOU TO TELL ME ITS OKAY TO BE BI) so long story cut short – he hasn’t had any fantasies about males and he said he hasn’t looked at a male and said “he’s fit” in his head (I asked him and made him promise to *******). Later on that night we went to bed (three of us on the sofa, it was too cold on the floor) and i lied next to him with my boxer shorts on and tried to go to sleep, he is mardy or emotional for a male and said he wouldn’t mind it if i put my arm around him,(he said “I’m not being gay, just if you wanna” then he put his legs over mine and we just fell asleep (he’s as straight as a ruler, i can assure you that but yet he teases me by “joking around” and doing sexual stuff in front of me!!! anyway me enjoying this and having weird dreams with him in them doesn’t help. does this mean i’m a bisexual? its only with him and maybe if i’m shopping in Tesco i might see a teenager who is good looking and be like “he’s fit” and just walk past?

I’m so confused to if i’m bi or its just my teenage hormones flying allover the place, I wont give up anything for my religion, but i just wanted to know. Oh also i’m really fussy with girls and tend to think girls are worse looking than males unless she IS good looking. Anyway thanks for your answers guys. I will pick a best answer

(PS. i started getting these feeling since i was 13, but I’ve always got a stiffie when i seen a penis since i was like 5 years old, Gregor said he got the same with the stiffie thing)

I’m very depressed. I have quite a few health problems, which is only making it worse. Honestly, the worst thing is my personal philosophy. Im pretty nihilistic, but not a nihilist in the sense I don’t believe in ANYTHING. There’s a paradox there, but I can see why they say it as that. Im 15. I comfort eat way to much.

I am having trouble with multiple personality’s. My nurse a psychiatrists says it because of abuse, which I had flashbacks of since before I seen them (about 2 years ago). So its not false memories. I am adopted and the social workers had strong suspicions of abuse (which they didn’t tell me of). The vast majority of the abuse was sexual. Im male. It hurts that my parents are basically giving up on this, now there saying I am faking this. I can’t really blame them for it though. But I am not. I also have a twin, who was also abused but not as much as me. This is having a huge effect on me. One of the other “personality’s” (I still feel uncomfortable calling it that), Madison, self harms. I have a burn and cuts on my arms and hands. I am wearing gloves to school, though since its the winter no one questions right now.

I’ve been considering suicide for a few years, though I do not plan on it. That said, death and suicide seems pretty neutral to me. I think everything is neutral to me now. Nothing has an inherent meaning to me, were as it used to. It does not have anything to do with my parents or the adoption (adopted at 2 and a half). There sort of black and white in the way they think.

I don’t believe in God, or religion (NOT a satanist). I don’t believe in Good or Evil. I don’t believe in Right or Wrong. All I believe in is cause and consequence. You can’t really justify anything you do, but at the same time, no one can truly justify anything they do against you. To me, life is like a game. You play my some rules. You can break those rules, but to some people its more fun to play by the rules, so they enforce those rules unto everyone else. I see a lot of people just holding themselves back because of emotions. Emotions are alot like drugs. Especialy considering certain drugs actualy cause the emotion of love (recreational drugs ASWELL as chocolate). When people say it needs to be so, or it has to be, they have never really justified it. In comparison, a suicide bomber can personaly justify there action, were as someone who abhors could never personaly justify that.

Everything seems so exhausting now. I used to do Karate and Boxing, but had to quite because of psychogenic seizures. I also hallucinate (I hear voices and used to see things that were not percieved by other people). I have never done drugs, except tregretall (they didn’t always know the seizures were psychogenic) and now resperidol (though everyone agrees that I am not psychotic). I started archery, which I really enjoyed, but again, had to quite because my father had a bad back. I feel to embarassed to go back if I have been off for a while. We are currently looking around to see if there is another archery club.

When I think of people who say if I would only enjoy myself I would be so much better, it makes me think that people are so introverted (*) that thats all that would get them through. I personaly don’t like the thought of people living only on emotions and pleasure. What is the difference between that and someone who abuses drugs? Again, I do not do drugs other then the ones prescribed.

* There are also “extroverted” people, obviously, but no one does what they do not like without a philosophy to back it up. Otherwise they sort of like it, don’t that? Thinks of it like this; an extroverted person helps someone because they like it. And an introverted person does what makes them introverted because they enjoy it. And then theres neutral people.

All that said, so far, I want to be a doctor because I am extremely interested in medical science, I like learning, and yes, I like to help people…

Also, I am an atheist and a sexual (though one of the personality is bisexual, which is confusing). I am 15, the physicaly I am an adult. Bioligicaly, I could drink alcohal, but I don’t ever plan on it. I a have finished puberty about three years ago (I am 6ft3 and still growing).

So I am writing this because I am introverted enough to want to be “better” by the time I try to go to Medical School.
I was at a mental health hospital (beechcroft, Bellfast. About 90 miles from strabane). Everyone agreed it wasn’t for me.
I still am seeing a psychiatrist and a psychiatric nurse.

Okay, i am a sixteen year old male and i have a problem. I am sexualy active and have been for a while. I suffer from premature ejaculation but i never used to. I used to last ages with my girlfriend masturbating me or giving me head. but Ever since i lost my virginity and i came very quickly no matter what she does , i cannot last very long. The other day she gave me head for about a minute and the she put my penis away , we were hugging and all i could think about was ejaculating, after about 2 minutes of hugging and thinking i ejaculated. I am very aware that it is my mind state that caused me to do this but i have no way to stop it. Now everytime we do anything sexual i ejeculate very easily because of my thoughts, i have tried everything in the book from masturbating before hand and even training my PC muscles, but it is all my brain that is causing me to ejaculate. The more times it happens the more angrier and upset i get and its causing me a lot of stress.I have tried to think about other things but the thoughts remain in the back of my mind and i end up ejaculating even if she is not touching my penis. How do i stop myself from having these thoughts that cause me to ejeculate ? :S Please help , as i am becoming more worried and find my self not wanting to do anything sexualy with her and i am scared that i will destory my sense of sexual pleasure all together HELP!

Can someone clarify this:

1) Many women say they can’t get an orgasm without stimulation of the clitoris.
2) Some people say that male and female circumcision is the same and has equal effects.
3)Some people say that the foreskin of the penis has either equal to or more nerve endings to support sexual pleasure than the clitoris.

So my question is, doesn’t that mean if you circumcise a guy, he looses the ability to have an orgasm and/or enjoy sex?

What is the correct answer here, I am hearing a lot of inconsistent ideas on the topic.

this is not my account it is my daughters. is it normal for a 45 year old women to lose all interest in sex or any kind of sexual pleasure weather it be male or lesbian? and is it normal to forget that my daughter is my daughter and my son is my son because I keep thinking that my daughter is my sister Theresa and my son is my brother tom. I am very worried.