i would just like some male opinions on this please.
when getting sexual pleasure i squirt a lot and it goes on his bed :/
i feel really guilty for making a mess, should i be bothered? would you care?

sorry i didn’t no what category to put it into, so went for male’s heath because i wanted male opinions.
thankyou x
The sheets get changed straight after if i have squirted on his bed.
no sex is involved.

Im just wondering.. Ive always had a Very high sex drive.. and probly been with around 18 males in my life.. Recently i had the perfect lover.. And had a high sex drive to him.. But we broke up and since then i was depressed and 0 sex drive.. its been 3 months and i got a new lover.. but he isent nearly as good looking or experienced as my Ex. I tryed to do a open realtionship and i cant find a sex drive in any one they all seem like they are not sexualy attrative.. Even guys id die to have sex with.. look like nothing.. Even odder.. i went with my ex somewhere and i was turned off by him aswell..

When i think of sex i miss.. Is probly the last time i was with my Ex.. And he probably did me for the best sex ever.. And i cant really.. Feel sexual pleasure any more..

I tryed toping to change it up.. and i Got soft very fast.. And couldn’t even stay hard.. I tryed to bottom and it dident work.. i enjoyed it but something in the back of my head i cant really read.. Hinders it..

I wanna enjoy sex again i feel like il never enjoy it again.. What my issue?
As for the 2 answers.. not quite the deal.. Tryed topping a chick and nothing.. Also.. i can get hard and come.. I just dont feel.. Enjoyment from sex.. is the issue.. I usably cum about 3 times per day
Its pycological

im 18 and wanted 2 test my curiosity out. I went in his flat got down 2 it wanked/sucked etc only no *** stuff. Was good at the time, after *** ming i was like hmmm then left and thought what the hell didnt really enjoy it that much after and felt sick and regretted dont know why?? I dont if i just like some 1 touching me and pleasuring me whether it is a female or male? I m confused dunno what 2 do its my first sexual encounter ever which was with him, should i not even meet a guy again i only if i wanna get h e a d or something i would meet a girl for the same. Am i still str8 or bi or what??! Someone advise me please, thank you

Im a 25 years old male. I am having major mental/emotional issues including major anxiety, depression, along with mild-moderate ADD and OCD. And probably more. Im on meds but they only do so much and I need to vent about this before I go crazy. Everything is culminating and im a miserable wreck. I posted this question about my sexuality earlier if you are interested, if not, just keep reading: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoDlL_zx4PgTVpetGBmbE.fty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20110226164631AAieTdy

And that’s only one of my issues. Its an important one, but it is just one of them. I have major social anxiety as well as general anxiety constantly, I think I show some symptoms of APD too, Im paranoid all the time, im starting to notice my OCD more and my ADD doesn’t help things. Ive been suicidal. I don’t think I can carry it out, thankfully. I suffer from major depression though. Ive all but completely withdrawn from friends (even my closest ones), I don’t find pleasure in doing anything anymore…even hobbies I always loved. I can’t hold a job (although im trying very hard to get a new one that suites me better and im hoping that will help). I have no will to do anything anymore and I have near ZERO confidence. And I’m really starting to hate my family since I feel a lot of my issues stem from them…which sucks since I am stuck living with them. A lot of this realization has been a recent thing (past 2-3 years). I am now aware that what went on when I was young was NOT right but I didn’t realize this until recently….I dealt with different types of child abuse (incl. borderline sexual abuse too), cruelty to animals, domestic violence, constant lying, etc. My family was, IMO, very dysfunctional. I strongly feel that my parents have their own set of problems from their youth although they don’t really admit it…and it transferred over to me. I have twin siblings 2 years younger than me who have problems of their own which im sure is not a coincidence. My family is so closed off and rarely if ever admit when they are wrong. I cant believe my parents are still together and why they chose to do so is beyond me. From my perspective, I saw little affection between them growing up. Heck, they have not slept in the same bed for as long as I can remember…20+ years. And over the years I remember constant yelling and screaming and insulting etc. Seriously, what kind of example does that set for your kids in terms of forming good properly functioning relationships? Hell, I have even questioned if I am adopted and if my dad is gay! I am really starting to think they are the ones who F’d me up and now that I am really starting to think for myself, I realize so much was wrong. Its mostly on my dad (who I consider abusive toward the whole family) but my mother is emotionally weak and has problems of her own. But now I feel trapped in what seems to be a vicious cycle. And this is just part of my problems. Im just trying to cope as best I can and trying to put my life back in order. Ive opened up to people that I trust but I don’t know if it helped me or hurt me more. I always feel like im being talked about…which is human nature, but it hurts on many levels…almost like back-stabbing. Im pretty sure I lost a job opportunity because they knew some people I know that I have opened up to and some stuff was said. I can’t prove that but if its true…I mean, c’mon, that’s not even fair! This is just the tip of the iceberg but it should get the gist of the point across. Do you guys think this is the reason I have such a hard time with everything like forming friendships, romantic relationships, work ethics, constant lying, being super cynnical, and just plain emotional problems, etc? Im hyper-alert to anything that can be interpreted as negative toward me too and I take stuff personally that probably had nothing to do with me…BUT I CAN’T HELP IT, it just happens in my head. I feel like I am the product of stupid people having kids and I have to suffer the consequences for it!

Any comments, questions, concerns, etc are very welcomed.

Thanks

Hi.
My partner and I are in our 20s.
We have been dating for 3 years and recently moved in together.
Prior to moving in, we had had no sexual intimacy other than touching.
He was my first.
Intimacy with him is very fun.
The only problem is.. it is hard for us to have “normal intercourse” because, well….he has a very small … male area.
I can get little to no pleasure from actual intercourse.
I don’t want to say it to his face, but I feel like that is the problem. I always fake it. I feel bad faking it..
is there anything we can do?
he is only about 5 inches, and we do have a toy. the toy or oral is the only way he can get me off.

I just feel like we should be able to have pleasurable intercourse too..
@suprtrev: no do not worry, I am not in it for sex. I do not even care if we have sex. I love him for how good he is to me.

I’m 17 and male. I have a very high sex drive – I crave sexual pleasure and can wank off sometimes up to 3 times a day. Noticing this, I tried a little something. I tried to abstain from masturbation for as long as 3 days, and I barely made it. LOL. Honestly, I felt a strong urge to jerk off on the 2.5th day. I prolly psyched myself out.

I recently was on a camping trip. We went in a motorhome – five of us with only one tiny washroom. It was pretty weird – I didn’t feel the need to masturbate as I had other things on my mind. I was thinking about the trip. Finally, about 6 days later, I just couldn’t hold it. I got that same urge you get when you just gotta pee and I had to run to the bathroom.

I gotta say, BEST FEELING in a pretty long time. Without getting into too much detail, I fell backwards with my pants down and hit my head to the toilet seat. My pants had my legs stuck. Wild orgasm.

My question: Is it normal that I can’t hold off masturbating for more than 2-3 days willingly? Even though I’ve reached my sexual peak it still feels like I should be able to control it.

for virgins, is first time sex something instinctive, something they will know how to do exactly despite a lack of experience?

why do people get fully nude during sex, is it something instinctive/natural response as well?

does unprotected sex feel the best?

do women feel it when a man ejaculates semen into her vagina?

do women feel the semen in their vagina afterwards?

what would you prefer for highest pleasure: unprotected sex, protected sex(w/ condom), oral sex, making out/kissing, etc.?

is sexual intercourse arguably considered the best form of pleasure for humans that exists?

sorry for all the questions, i am a virgin male, just curious, thanks!

Im male
im 17

how can i get my mental/sexual thrill of masturbating back – i tried holding off for 1 month but only went 3 weeks

have been masturbating since i was 14

i done it today but i could feel pleasured and i was mostly thinking of the pleasure i will feel instead for sexual thoughts anyway during ejaculation i only felt a tiny pleasure – somtimes i dont feel anything at all.

what is wrong with me?
Have i broken “IT”

I am a 21 year old male. I am depressed and take geeze….wellbutrin, celexa, klonopin, lithium..An thats just off the top of my head. You see I lost my best friend sense i was 9 years old a few months ago in a car accident. I miss him more then you can imagine. I feel incredible guilt it was not me that went. He did not have “mental” problems like I do. He was the kinda guy who never makes fun of ANYONE and is always friendly with everyone. I love him and miss him so much. Long story short, I started drinking alot. I have enjoyed physical pain for well…as long as i remember. Not sexually. I just like the feeling of pain, it relieves me somehow…its hard to explain. I burn myself with lit cigarettes, cut my arms with razor knives and sometimes choke myself. ONCE AGAIN this is not for sexual pleasure. Is this semi-normal? Do other people do this? I am in NO way suicidal. I don’t want to die at all. The pain is like a “release” if you can call it that.
Also I would NEVER harm anyone else. But i do enjoy seeing the blood from my razor wounds. I cut just deep enough to not require stitches. Please do not make fun of me or give me a suicide hotline. I don’t want to die at all.
No one in my family knows about this by the way

this is probably a stupid question but my friend said she wanted a fleshlight for xmas and i went to sex shop but it is a male toy so can girls also use this for sexual pleasure? im just curious i mean i already gave it to her.