Okay Im 25 years old and I have been in a serious relationship for about a year now and I have always had a very high sex drive, and I have had an orgasm before but yesterday I was having sex with my boyfriend and something very strange happened… I was on top and all of a sudden without warning at all it felt as though I pee’d and there was a lot of liquid that went everywhere and it came from my clitoris area which is why I felt like I pee’d but I know for a fact it wasn’t pee…needless to say with so much fluid I was kinda embarrassed because I have never known my body to do such a thing was this a different kind of orgasm? is this normal ? is this what guys call “squirting” and I hate that term but I don’t know what else to us…..is this normal? and will it happen more and more ? and also why does this happen I understand how and why the male ejaculates but how and why does a female? also would this increase my chances of getting pregnant because my vagina is doing these crazy things ? okay I know this is a strange question and I have lots of little questions but I need help on this one Im feeling weird about my own body and I need some knowledge…also please no silly answers

this question is mainly to the guys because we ladies have no idea what really is going on in the male brain. But also basically about teenage guys. there are some gentlemen at my school… it’s really hard to believe that they think of girls as sex objects and think about having sex with girls all the time…. it’s not true with ALL guys, is it? Or are all guys thinking like and they are just hiding it really well?

If the answer is yes, that All teenage guys do think that way about girls all the time, does it change with age? Does sex drive take a nose dive after reaching adulthood?

Am 27, male, have a very healthy life (which comprises of gyms/workouts/diet) so on. Have a very strong sex drive (which is fine as far as my gf goes), but is it NORMAL for all men to have a very strong urge in the mornings? My gf absolutely hates it, and we often end-up fighting about it.

She prefers to have sex in the evenings/nights, and not once again in the morning. She says it tires her out for the day.

HOW CAN I DEAL WITH THIS URGE?
SHOULD I SEE A DOCTOR?

Are there any pills or something to control? I feel guilty cause she works hard all day and would hate to fight over such a petty matter. All answers are welcome.

Chow, XX

PS: Am I having too much sex? We usually have everyday, atleast 2-3 times every night.

I really need some advice. I am a 35 year old male, I am still a virgin. I never had a girlfriend in my life and it’s because I have low self esteem. I was picked on as a child until my late teens and it made me feel like I was worth nothing. Girls especially during these years were mean to me because I was not some big macho football player (those were the kinds of guys who got the girls in the 80′s & 90′s). I was terribly thin and very shy. But still to this day, I don’t feel adequate enough to date any girl. I am told I am attractive and many females where I work always ask me why I don’t have a girlfriend and even question me about my past I cannot tell them because it is embarrassing. The older I get, the worse it gets. I mean how many 35 year old men out there have never had a girlfriend and are still a virgin? I have a high sex drive, just never got to use it on a partner. I only kissed one girl in my life and that was when I was 23 and that was totally unexpected after I gave this girl a ride home from college. We made out for like 10 minutes and that was that. What should I do? I feel the Virginity thing at my age is a total turn off to any woman over age 21. They say sex gets better with age and practice makes perfect. No woman is going to want to teach a guy at my age. Please, someone give me advice.

And how is there sex drive at 60? Can a man maintian good looks at this age too? Talk to me people….

im a 20 year old male and I have been on zoloft for 7 years. I believe the zoloft has killed my sex drive. my drive is so low to the point that I am impotent many times. If I get off zoloft will my sex drive increase? are the effects permanent? Im afraid that it will ruin future relationships.
nothing stimulates me much at all. Im afraid that I will not be able to come off the medicine, since i been on it so long.
could i have problems with post ssri sexual dysfuntion?i dont want this to effect any relationship that i am in
will it go away

Apparently it decreases your sex drive – in turn causing infrequent erections in males. Although apparently this is only the case if you have eaten gluten products in the past week or so.

Okay, heres the deal. I am an 18 year old male going off to college. I work out everyday, lifting and running, eat relatively healthy (mostly whole grains and fruit, along with several cups of green tea a day). I also recently became a type 1 diabetic. I am leaving for college in a week, and I think I have a problem gynocaemastia (sp?). I first started noticing these problems with “man-boobs” before I became diabetic, so I dont think it is related to the fact that I am type-1. My nipples are constantly itching, I feel tissue there, and when I where a shirt, my nipples stick out, which is extremely embarassing. My raging sex drive of the past has also become nonexistant. When i masturbate, I have a very weak and depressing orgasm, which makes me believe that it isnt even worth it. At first I thought i had a zinc deficiency, so i started supplementing, and all thats done is help with the itching, still no recovery of sex drive. When I was hospitalized for type-1, they constantly gave me potassium through the IV because apparently my potassium levels were wayyyy off. I also noticed that my sex drive had returned those 3 days in the hospital though. So my question is this, could my sex drive be screwed up because my potassium levels are out of whack, because I also listen to brainwave entrainment for anxiety and depression, which supposedly throws ur potassium levels all out of whack, but apparently there is no evidence of this. Also, are there any herbs, such as vitex or something, that can help with this apparent breast tissue which is building up under my nipples? Thank you.

I am getting ready to call my OB and ask for a new birthcontrol. As I posted before I was trying to start the new one Loestrin 24 however to order 3 months worth it cost $100.00. That is a bit steep for our income so I wanted to find another one that might be a generic (They are only $25.00/ 3 months) that comes highliy reccommended from actual people who take it (My ob/gyn is male so I don’t think he really understands the whole …I gained 20 lbs on the last one lost my sex drive and now it doesn’t really do all that much for acne problem) I have been on Trinessa 28 day tab for 3 years and was on Ortho Tri-Cyclen for a year prior to that. They kept me from getting preg but as I mentioned I didn’t have some pleasant side efffects either. So…if you could tell me the one you like best and why I would appreciate it! Thanks in advance!

I don’t know…

I’m a 19 year old male who lives in New York and is enjoying the relaxation between two semesters of college. Now, as any healthy male should, my mind has periodically come back and forth to ideas of sex and the female gender. Thus it has come to no surprise that I would search the internet for pornography, and get these impulses..shall we say, off my chest.

But, as this is the question that I am befuddled with- I find almost all aspects of sex quite disgusting from a third-person view; I just find the act itself debasing, the people who do it (while admirable individuals themselves) groan and moan in the most animalistic ways, and the whole act seems very much a disgusting act in and of itself. The same appendages/orifices that are being used for urination, waste removal, and such activities are being sucked on, licked, and otherwise coming into close physical contact with another human being.

Are my feelings echoed somewhere out there in the halls of this community? I don’t know whether to consider myself abnormal (I have somewhat of a normal-to-low sex drive and almost no sexual urges when I’m out and about doing the errands of the day), and I considered my virginity when I had it as something to be done simply so I could get it out of my way and go on with my life. That goes hand in hand of course with the fact that I never found sex to be pleasurable when I had it, and my mind strays to whether or not I should be worried about my mental state. (I have a few…disorders, shall we say, that I need to keep an eye on occasionally, though they do not impinge on my very active social life- too many friends to count and I’m going out later to hang out.)

I have actually come to call myself asexual (Wikipedia it; I’m not alone in my plight), and I’m wondering about input from you-all. (And forgive the complicated diction- I’ve read much more than many my age and am quite educated.)

(Which isn’t to say you aren’t. ^_^)

~CmG