Men’s health: Am I gay because of this?
I had a wet dream of ME sucking
a guy’s penis & I woke up with
an orgasm with c*m on my
pants. I’m pretty sure I don’t
wanna have sex with guys but
this dream is kinda pissing me
off.
Can wet dreams give you a clue
about your sexual orientation?
Or do wet dreams necessarily
relate with your sexual
orientation?
October 4th, 2010 at 1:25 pm
One of the functions of dreams is to allow the mind to explore things that you would not explore in a waking state–without any real life ramifications. Such a dream is no indication of your sexual orientation.
Of course, dreams have other functions, too.
Try not to let it bother you, but if it does you might want to try masturbating to a fantasy similar to your dream. Your success or failure in that attempt might give you further clues, although you still won’t have a definitive answer.
October 4th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
Hi, Dan! No, you don’t have anything to worry about being gay from this dream. We (men) all have dreams about sexual activities. Sometimes the activity is hetrosexual, sometimes it’s homosexual. Your dreams are just a creative function of your brain. They have no meaning in conscious life. If you really liked this dream, you may be gay. But I wouldn’t worry about it. You will decide which orientation you wish to presue and enjoy.
October 4th, 2010 at 2:20 pm
Give the gay thing a try, who knows? you might like it better. Advice. Fuck a chick. then fuck a guy. see what u like better. it doesnt hurt to Experiment. Maybe ur head is trying to help u have better orgasms.
But even if u dont want to go through with the sex with a guy, it doesnt mean ur gay if u do.
and this dream doesnt mean ur gay. Its a projection of ur desires