help, I have sexual related issues?
(i posted this here cause men’s health didnt help…)Ok so I’m catholic but not a hardcore catholic, I use to masturbate a lot and now i just wanna stop. This is how it starts, I masturbate a lot and get horny from girls and stuff nice, now i went to confession, and didn’t admit I mastubrated which i felt guilty about. Now when i look at girls i dont get horny, I try to stop mastubrating right after confession and i did it a couple of times but didnt feel good, i just got hard and let the juices out, Now i wanna stop masturbating, but i want the horniess to come back for later on in life, also my testicales have somewhat been hurting a tiny bit time to time since that confession and my penis when soft is smaller than usual when soft,however when i get hard its the same size as it was b4 as hard. ever since confession thats all i have been thinking about how i didnt admit it and i should stop, when i masturbated my mortals told me to stop. any ideas and what should i do? also now when i think of sex and see hot girls i dont get urges anymore 
? any ideas would be nice on what should i do, maybe if i just admit it at confession everything will be normal…or a time machine…
March 18th, 2010 at 9:20 am
Maybe it’s all the guilt getting to you.
March 18th, 2010 at 9:44 am
I find flyswatter training helpful, when you get an urge slap your nutz with a flyswatter really hard and scream no, down boy. After a few times this will have the desired effect, you must slap really hard, the harder the faster it works. Good luck.
March 18th, 2010 at 10:03 am
Maybe you should stop believing in your imaginary friend and definatly do not tell some strange man that has chosen never to sleep with a woman that you like to touch yourself.
March 18th, 2010 at 10:43 am
here’s an idea. stop goig to confession and stop feeling guilty about things that are normal
March 18th, 2010 at 11:21 am
Well first of all masturbating is normal and healthy. I don’t know why you are stressing yourself out about doing it. When you try to suppress your biology, you end up more frustrated than if you just go with it. It is not sinful to masturbate. It is actually quite healthy and normal. Men who masturbate have a decreased chance of prostate cancer too, just another reason to do it!
March 18th, 2010 at 11:41 am
Hey not trying to knock your religion, but I think things like that should stay between you and god anyways. Now whats happening to you is you are getting desensitized. The best way to cure this is to go find a very busy hobby whenever you feel horny. Try basketball or something really active that can be done at any time of the night or day. Its none of my business but why after church? Kinda weird. Any how there is plenty to do in life other than thinking about sex. if worse comes to worse cold showers always does the trick.
March 18th, 2010 at 11:47 am
whoooaaa dude u got that quilty mind. just dont worry but hey congrats for wanting to quit!!! but also dont punish urself. alittle play is good once in a while